WHY IT MATTERS
Public family content can become relevant during disputes between separated parents, particularly where disagreements concern a child’s privacy, welfare, online exposure or parenting decisions.
The legal significance of particular posts will depend on the circumstances and jurisdiction, but broadcasting family disagreements can also intensify conflict and place children in the middle of adult disputes they never chose to join.
1. KEEP CUSTODY CONFLICT OFF SOCIAL MEDIA
Public accusations can escalate disputes and expose children to unnecessary attention.
2. CONSIDER PAUSING CHILD-FOCUSED POSTING
During serious disputes, reducing public exposure may help protect the child.
3. FOLLOW COURT ORDERS AND AGREEMENTS
Online posting should comply with any relevant legal restrictions or parenting arrangements.
4. DON’T USE CHILDREN TO SEND MESSAGES
Children should never become messengers between adults or appear in content attacking another parent.
5. PROTECT THE CHILD’S PRIVACY
Adult disagreements do not justify revealing a child’s personal information.
6. REMEMBER THAT PUBLIC POSTS CAN BE EXAMINED
Online material may potentially become relevant in legal proceedings.
7. DON’T DELETE POTENTIALLY RELEVANT MATERIAL WITHOUT ADVICE
If legal proceedings are underway or anticipated, seek appropriate legal advice before altering or deleting material that could be relevant.
8. KEEP CHILDREN OUT OF ADULT ARGUMENTS
They should not be encouraged to publicly choose sides.
9. GET APPROPRIATE FAMILY-LAW ADVICE
The rules and significance of online content vary according to jurisdiction and circumstances.
10. PUT THE CHILD’S WELFARE FIRST
The priority should be reducing conflict and protecting the child, not winning an online argument.